Well the weekend started a day early for me. On Thursday my boss and I decided I needed a day off to relax. SO I take Friday off. My car was in the shop and I was going to carpool to work with my dad. Joey had Josh the whole day due to he was going to go to Philly to see his sister. I was so happy to get a day alone! I told Joey I was taking off Friday and he FLIPPED OUT ON ME! He said why are you taking off on a day that I was going to take Josh to Philly to see my sister and I wanted to do it alone. How is it going to look after I told her you were working that we all show up at her house. What do you not trust me? He made me feel like I was the size of a pea the way he yelled at me. I retaliated saying I and taking a day off bvecause I NEED IT! I told him had no intentions fo going to his sisters because even if I wanted to I couldn't go. The only vehicle we have is his truck and it only seats 2! After I said that too him he just said "Oh". I continued saying I will stay home and get some work done around the house and relax. Joey didn't like that he said well how is it going to look if I go up there without you and they find out you are home and then they think you are avoiding them. I then told Joey I have no choice to not go...there is NO ROOM! I told him he does not need to tell his family I am home just pretend I am at work. I mean DAMN all I wanted was a day off and away from the office stress. Joey appoligized to me (I don't know if he actually MEANT it but he said it).
Now I get home from work after I pick Josh up from my mom's (she watched him the afternoon).
I get into the door and noticed Josh had more diahrea...this was his 5th diaper of the day at this point. then another 30 minutes later another and it kept going like this ALL NIGHT! Joey noticed while I was in the shower that Josh's soft spot was sinking in. OK Call into the pediatrician. While waiting for the call back I started pedialyte. The pediatrician said I was doing everything right and added a few other things to do with food. In a few hours his head was normal again (soft spot). Everything was such a mess! I looked at Joey and said I think you should reconsider your trip tomorrow if this continues...he agreed. Josh was just as happy as can be just couldn't keep a diaper on him for longer than 30 minutes it seemed. Good thing I already had the day off.
So now it is Friday morning and Joey plans to leave around 11:00am and by then we were already on diaper # 4 for the day. Joey called his sister and cancelled but rescheduled for Thursday of this week. Funny thing was she was going to cancel on him anyway.
Friday we also found out that at 3am Joey's dad had a deadly shooting on his street and now we are hoping his dad will reconsider his living on that street. He lives in a BAD neighborhood in Philly.
So we all spent the day as a family and just enjoy each other. Went for a walk in-between diapers. Found some homes in my development that Joey's dad might consider. All in all we had a good day together. PLUS we got to pick up my van and the cost of repairs was nothing like we thought it would have been.
I was bummed I didn't get my day alone BUT I DID get some alone time that day.
Saturday we get a phone call from Joey's mom. Joey was outside getting a ding out of my van so we let it go to voicemail. I check it for him (at his request) and it is Joey's mom she is frantic. Seems Joey's sister told her that Josh was extremely ill...no he wasn't...he just had diahrea! So Joey had to hurry and call his mom back to calm her down and fix what his sister did by exagerating. I SWEAR! Then later we do some work around the house and head over to my parents house for some Low Country Boil (boil together Crab legs, Shrimp, pototoes, Corn on the cob minis, and sausage with old bay seasoning bags) SO GOOD! Then we get home around 8pm and go to bed later.

Sunday was a good day. Joey went to work. Josh and I got up and went to church with my parents. Then we came back to thier house Josh ate and then my mom, Josh and I went shopping. First to Target. I got a shower gift for a friend and a 1st birthday gift for a little girl. Also got some snacks and necessities and food for the house. Mom got some diapers for her house Josh some clothes and other things for their house. Off to Caters we go. They are having a 50-70% off baby clothes there so my mom stocks up on long sleeves...forgot to mention it is chilly here now and we need the long sleeves. Josh does not have many due to we were not sure what size he would be in by the time that weather starts...well it started. So my mom bought the whole store it seems. I kept half the clothes he can wear now and all the others will be his christmas presents. Off to the grocery store I go where I buy a crap load of groceries for under $70...coupon QUEEN)
Monday morning. Josh is CRANKY! It is COLD! so we wear some of our new clothes wear our Robeez shoes and even have to wear a jacket! After dropping Josh off at Daycare. I call Joey and we talk about his family a little. Joey is hurt on the lack of involvement of some of his family members with Josh. They seem to expect us to do all the traveling...which is going to STOP. Joey said after he sees his sister on Thursday that is it (besides holidays) His family is going to have to take an initiative to see us and not have us do all the work to keep them involved in Josh's life. Joey's dad visits about every 2 weeks which is GREAT! But since Josh has been born Joey's sister has seen him a total of 5 times and the same goes for his mom too. They make no effort to come see us they want us to come to them because of the distance...do you think we like the distance especially if we are the ones traveling with an infant! So Joey and I decided that besides Christmas and Thanksgiving we are not going up to see them anymore. I told Joey don't expect much response. He agreed but said if they want to be a prt of Josh's life they are going to have to do something about it because we are tired of making them be a part of his life.
I am so proud of Joey that takes a lot to do what he is doing. After I hung up with him my mom calls in. Seems my grandfather (my dad's dad) is not doing well and they would like to plan a trip to AL for 11/30-12/3 for me, Josh, my dad, and my mom to fly down there. My grandparents (my dad's parents) have never seen Josh except in pictures. My mom's mom saw Josh from 2 weeks to 4 weeks old. Plus I will get to see my cousin's babies that were born 2-3 weeks after Josh. I have 3 cousins that went on our NC trip this summer and they got to see Josh other than that Josh has 2 families he has never seen. If my grandfather has to have surgery or if anything were to go wrong then at least he got to see Josh.
OK let's end this on a happy note...I tis going to be a good day at work the boss' are out of the office!